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Ceremony Options
Wedding Officiating
I specialize in creating personalized and meaningful wedding ceremonies that reflect the love and commitment of each unique couple. Whether you desire a traditional, contemporary, or themed ceremony, I will work with you to bring your vision to life.
Vow Renewals
Renew your commitment to each other with a heartfelt vow renewal ceremony. Whether you want to reaffirm your original wedding vows or create new ones, I will assist in crafting a memorable and touching ceremony to celebrate your enduring love.
Friend or Family Officiating Assistance
It’s a beautiful, personal choice. Just make sure the words match the moment. I’ll help you craft the perfect ceremony script and review your vows, so everything feels seamless, heartfelt, and truly you. Perfect for couples who want a ceremony that feels like them — beautifully written, emotionally resonant, and ready to shine on the wedding day.
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Pop-up &
Mini-Monies
My philosophy for wedding ceremonies is grounded in authenticity, inclusivity, and a deep respect for diverse traditions. I work hand-in-hand with couples to design a ceremony that reflects their unique beliefs and values. Whether the celebration is traditional, modern, or creatively themed, my goal is to honor the heart of each couple’s journey with sincerity and warmth
Packages for Ceremonies
"I Do"
This is a brief, under 10- minute ceremony that administers the Oath of Marriage.
With short vows,
say “I Do”, Quick exchange of rings and a kiss.​
This is a basic civil type of Ceremony.​
This is not appropriate for a “Formal Venue” wedding. It is designed for a small at-home or park ceremony with just a few guests.
"Simply Sweet"
This is the most popular, traditional, less than
20 minute-long Ceremony.
This is for couples who want a Simple yet Sweet Ceremony experience.
Tailor this package effortlessly with customization across most selections, complemented by an alternate wording choice for a refined touch.
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With simple Vows, say “I Do”, Ring Exchange and a kiss, this is appropriate for a “Formal Venue” wedding. It is designed for any venue with any amount of guests.
"Our Love Story"
This Ceremony is for couples who want a more personalized,
30-40 minute-long Ceremony.
In this Ceremony, this is your love story; vision for married life; family/cultural traditions; and/or any favorite poetry to create the most memorable ceremony experience ever.
Personalize your celebration with an alternate selection of vows, inspiring ceremony ideas, and the opportunity to craft your own love story. Add meaningful readings or incorporate any special touches you’ve always envisioned.
Together, we’ll design a ceremony that is uniquely yours—more personal, more memorable, and even sweeter than the traditional Simply Sweet Ceremony. ​It is designed for any venue with any number of guests.
Package Details
Initial phone or online consultation is always free. There is no obligation.
"I Do"
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A quick Civil or Elopement ceremony Approx. 10 Minutes
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Private ceremony (the couple and up to 6 guests)
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Crafting and perfecting the ceremony script together
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Arriving 15 minutes prior to ceremony start time
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Administer the oath of marriage
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Ring Exchange
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Sign and First-Class mailing (with tracking) of the marriage license
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Travel to the Ceremony venue*
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Upon request, presence at the rehearsal**
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2-3 Meetings on the phone or Google Meet
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Contract for Services includes: Samples of Vows, Ring Exchange, Pronouncement, a template to fill in your wording for the day of the ceremony, To Do List before the I Do’s reminders
"Simply Sweet"
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A Beloved Package Designed for a 20-Minute Ceremony
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Semi-private ceremony (the couple and up to any amount of guests)
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Arriving 15 minutes prior to ceremony start time
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Collaborating with the Ceremony Coordinator to finalize all ceremony details
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Crafting and perfecting the ceremony script together
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Officiating the ceremony on your special day
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Sign and First-Class mailing (with tracking) of the marriage license
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Travel to the Ceremony venue*
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Upon request, presence at the rehearsal**
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2-5 Meetings on the phone or Google Meet
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Contract for Services includes: Ceremony Planner Checklist, Samples of Vows, Introductions, Ring Exchange, Pronouncement, Readings, Songs, template to fill in your wording for the day of the ceremony and a To Do List before the I Do’s reminders
"Our Love Story"
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A Customizable Package Loved by Many. Your Most Popular Choice for Personalization
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Approx. 30 Minutes
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Usually a private-formal wedding
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Completely personalized ceremony." Uniquely yours, from start to finish
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Officiating the ceremony on your special day
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Arriving 30-45 minutes prior to ceremony start time
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Collaborating with the Ceremony Coordinator to finalize all ceremony details
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Crafting and perfecting the ceremony script together
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Sign and First-Class mailing (with tracking) of the marriage license
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Presence at the rehearsal.
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Travel to the Ceremony venue*
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3-6 Meetings on the phone, via Zoom, Whats App, Google Meet or in person
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Contract for Services includes: Pre Ceremony Questionnaire, Ceremony Planner Checklist, Samples of Vows, Introductions, Ring Exchange, Pronouncement, Readings, Songs, template to fill in your wording for the day of the ceremony and a To Do List before the I Do’s reminders
Vow Renewals
Initial phone or online consultation is always free. There is no obligation.
Starting at $300
A vow renewal is a ceremony of celebration and recommitment where a married couple reaffirms their marriage vows to each other. Because this isn't a legally binding ceremony, the way that a wedding ceremony is, there really aren't any rules about how to renew your vows—the sky is the limit!
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Approx. 20 Minutes
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Arriving 15 minutes prior to ceremony start time
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Renewal of vows
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Ring Exchange
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2-3 Meetings on the phone or Google Meet.
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Contract for Services includes: Ceremony Planner Checklist, Samples of Vows, Introductions, Readings, Songs, template to fill in your wording for the day of the ceremony and a To Do List before the I Do’s reminder
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Personalized Certificate of Remarriage
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Travel to the Ceremony venue*
Additional Pricing Details
Deposit & Final Payment: The non-refundable booking fee is $200. Cash, Zelle, Money Order or Cashier Check (no addtl service Fee). Credit Card, Apple Pay, Google Pay, Pay Pal (5% addtl service Fee added) are accepted. The deposit is required to reserve your ceremony date, and is credited toward any ceremony package you choose. The balance due payment is required no later than 60 days prior to the ceremony date. If the ceremony date booked is less than 1 month prior to the actual ceremony date, 100% payment is due at the time of booking and is non-refundable. Zelle: Chase Bank – Registered as: WED ME DEE LLC ~ wed.me.dee@gmail.com or Zelle ID: wmdllc
*Travel Fees: Travel to and from the Rehearsal and/or ceremony location beyond 30 miles from zip code 10604 incurs an additional travel fee: 31-100 miles $75, 101-150 miles $125. Anything over 150 miles TBD.
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If there are any bridges, tunnels or tolls that require payment, the Client is responsible for paying the additional fees.
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If the Client selects a venue that does not offer free parking, the Client is responsible for either validating or paying for the Officiant’s parking.
**Rehearsal Fee: For an additional fee of $75, I will meet you at the ceremony location or another location and run through the rehearsal. No additional rehearsal fee if you book the “Our Love Story” ceremony. I can provide you with a free Ceremony Rehearsal Guide to help you decide.
Preferred Holidays Fee: There is an additional $125 fee if the Ceremony event occurs on the following Federal Holidays: Memorial Day and Weekend, Fourth of July and Weekend, Labor Day and Weekend, Thanksgiving Day and Weekend, Christmas Eve and Day, New Year’s Eve and Day. “Weekend” is defined as Saturday, Sunday, and/or Monday.
Delay Fee: An additional $25 per half hour fee occurs when the ceremony starts at least 1/2 hour after the Ceremony start time.
Refund Policy Client: The booking fee is non-refundable once the date is booked. If the Client must change the date or time of the ceremony it will be rescheduled to the new date or time if it is available for the Officiant. If the Clients new date or time is not available for the Officiant, the change will be considered a cancellation and the Client will forfeit the deposit. For cancellations within 14 days of the ceremony date, there will be no refund, 100% of the payment will be forfeited and the Officiant is relieved of all responsibilities set forth in the signed contract.
Refund Policy Venue: If the Event location (the "Venue") cancels the ceremony for whatever reason, the Client is responsible to find a new venue on that date. If that date is not available, and there is no date that Client and Officiant can agree upon due to availability, there will be no refund, and 100% of the payment will be forfeited and the Officiant is relieved of all responsibilities set forth in the signed contract.
Refund Policy Officiant Unavailability: This policy applies only in the event the Officiant is unable to attend and perform services on the ceremony date due to unforeseen circumstances such as hospitalization, auto accident, transportation breakdown or disruption, significant traffic delays, or any other incapacitating event. If the Officiant must cancel but is able to provide a qualified backup Officiant. A substitute Officiant will be assigned to perform all contracted duties on the day of the ceremony. No refund will be issued, as services will still be rendered. If the Officiant must cancel and no backup Officiant is available, the Client will receive a 100% refund of all payments made.
All Cancellations must be confirmed in writing, no exceptions!
Friend or Family Officiating Assistance
Initial phone or online consultation is always free. There is no obligation.
Starting at $300
I provide a dedicated, collaborative service for couples who want their vows or ceremony script to feel intentional, polished, and true to their voice. This package provides expert guidance to refine tone, flow, clarity, and emotional impact while preserving the couple’s authentic style.
When you contact me by email, phone, or text, I’ll respond to you as soon as possible. I am available for a no-obligation consultation to answer your questions, provide helpful information, and give you an opportunity to get to know me so you can decide if I am a good match for you and your significant others to help you with this task. I’ll ask for your ceremony date, time, location, and a few questions about the two of you including what kind of ceremony you are dreaming of. If you’d like to take next steps to save the date, I will send a Contract for Services and I’ll take a deposit to lock in the date. Once all parties have signed the contract, my services include:
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Assistance with reviewing and customizing your personal written vows and/or ceremony script
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WMD Ceremony Packet which includes the One (1) blank Microsoft Word template to help you get your thoughts together for your special day, Two (2) Sample Ceremony Scripts from other Clients, 10 Part Ceremony Script that outlines what’s in each section, samples of wording for each ceremony section: Introduction of Couple, Parent’s Consent, Readings, Officiant Preparation for the Vows, The Exchange of Vows, Exchange of Rings & Pronouncement.
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Three (3) Google Meet sessions Used for deep‑dive discussions, live edits, tone alignment, and coaching on delivery if desired ~ up to 1 hour each. Your friend or family member may be present.
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Up to five (5) rounds of revisions Thoughtful, line‑by‑line refinement to ensure the vows or script feel cohesive, meaningful, and ceremony‑ready.
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Professional review and feedback Focused on structure, pacing, personalization, inclusivity, and overall guest experience.
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BONUS: Wed Me Dee Ceremony Planner Checklist to make sure you don’t forget a thing during your wedding planning.
Additional Pricing Details
​Ceremony Script, Vow Creation and Review: $300​​
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Each of the services below may be booked individually as À La Carte offerings or added on to customize your experience.
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Additional 30-minute Google Meetings: $25 each
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Additional Revisions: $15 each
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The Complete Wed Me Dee LLC Ceremony Packet of Information ONLY (no meetings or revisions): $125
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Includes: Wed Me Dee Ceremony Planner Checklist, One (1) blank Microsoft Word template to help you get your thoughts together for your special day, Two (2) Sample Ceremony Scripts from other Clients, 10 Part Ceremony Script that outlines what’s in each section, samples of wording for each ceremony section: Introduction of Couple, Parent’s Consent, Readings, Officiant Preparation for the Vows, The Exchange of Vows, Exchange of Rings & Pronouncement. A Listing of Add On Ceremony Ideas, Ceremony Songs, Guide to running your own rehearsal and Who Gets a Gift and NYS License Information.
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Add On Ceremony Ideas: more popular add on ceremony elements. Brief descriptions of the rituals as well as any additional materials you would need to purchase are included: $5.00 each
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Ceremony Songs: Music is an important part of many wedding ceremonies – music speaks to our hearts and often evokes memories of our friends, families, and relationships: $5.00 each
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Guide to running your own rehearsal: This ceremony rehearsal guide is as a way to help couples run their own ceremony rehearsal, saving you time and money, as well as helping the ceremony run more smoothly on your wedding day: $5.00 each
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Who Gets a Gift: With so many people involved in your big day, it can get confusing on who should get a gift: $5.00 each
Deposit & Final Payment: Full payment is required to secure and retain my services. Cash, Zelle, Money Order, or Cashier’s Check are accepted with no additional service fee, while Credit Card, Apple Pay, Google Pay, and PayPal are accepted with a 5% service fee added. Full payment is required to secure and retain my services for the ceremony date. Zelle: Chase Bank – Registered as: WED ME DEE LLC ~ wed.me.dee@gmail.com or Zelle ID: wmdllc
Preferred Holidays Fee: An additional fee is added if the Google Meetings occur on the following Federal Holidays per the client’s request: Memorial Day and Weekend, Fourth of July and Weekend, Labor Day and Weekend, Thanksgiving Day and Weekend, Christmas Eve and Day, New Year’s Eve and Day. “Weekend” is defined as Saturday, Sunday, and/or Monday. Fee $100.
Refund Policy Client: The booking fee is non‑refundable once the ceremony date is secured. If the Client needs to change the ceremony date or time, all meeting dates will be rescheduled to a new date or time that is available for the Officiant. If the Client’s new date or time does not align with the Officiant’s schedule, the change will be treated as a cancellation and the Client will forfeit the deposit. If the couple chooses to cancel the ceremony entirely, no refund will be issued; 100% of all payments will be forfeited, and the Officiant is released from all responsibilities outlined in the signed contract.
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Refund Policy Officiant: Should the Officiant need to cancel a scheduled Google meeting, the Client agrees to reschedule to a date and time that works for both parties.
All Cancellations must be confirmed in writing, no exceptions!​
